“A gentle response defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire” (Proverbs
15:1
“I’ve never met a person whose greatest need was anything other than real, unconditional
love. There is no mistaking love. You feel it in your heart. It is the common fiber of life,
the flame that heats our soul, energizes our spirit and supplies passion to our lives. It is our
connection to God and to each other.” (Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, MD)
The best way to restore a relationship is to attack the problem, not the person. This is true
in a meeting, in a marriage and any relationship. We cannot fix problems when we are
consumed with assigning blame. The book of Proverbs says it well, “A gentle response
defuses anger, but a sharp tongue kindles a temper-fire” (Proverbs 15:1).
There are times to be angry and cross, but they should be rare. When it comes to resolving
conflict, how we say it might be more important than what we say. If we say it offensively, it
will be received defensively. The Bible sums it up this way:
“Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is
needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you” (Eph. 4:29).
Starting next Sunday, FaithPoint will launch a new series on “The Art of Relationships”. Join us for this exciting series. Worship services are at
8:30 and 10:00 am. All are welcome and encouraged to attend.
1. January 12th “It’s Better Together”
2. January 19th “Talking to a Wall”
3. January 26th – “Foundation for a Successful Marriage”
4. February 2nd – “Lessons for Husbands”
5. February 9th – “Lessons for Wives”
6. February 16th – “Lessons for Families”
